Current through Vol. 42, No. 1, September 16, 2024
(a)
Discipline. "Discipline" means safe practices or methods of
teaching and enforcing acceptable patterns of behavior to ensure proper conduct
and does not include corporal punishment. The resource parent assists the child
in OKDHS custody placed in the resource home learn behaviors that promote the
child's self-regard, personal ability, and socialization skills. The rules
governing these efforts are outlined in Oklahoma Administrative Code (OAC)
340:75-7-38(b) through (d).
(b)
Positive interactions. The resource parent and family interactions
with a child:
(1) protect and nurture the
child's physical and psychological well-being;
(2) advance the child's development;
(3) meet the child's needs;
(4) teach the child ways to
prevent and solve problems;
(5)
maintain and build the parent and child relationship;
(6) build the child's self-control and
responsibility; and
(7) comply with
OKDHS rules regarding discipline to provide a safe, nurturing environment that
allows the child to experience security and positive
self-esteem.
(c)
Teaching techniques.
(1)
Positive behavior management. Positive behavior management
techniques include, but are not limited to:
(A) rewards. Rewards may be small gestures of
approval, such as treats or toys, and symbols of recognition, such as stickers,
stars, happy faces, or money. Rewards are for the interest, desire, and effort
the child displays, not for performance, talent, or ability. This technique
must not be used all the time;
(B)
privileges. Privileges allow the child to experience greater freedom or
opportunity and an increased responsibility. Privileges are used to encourage
the child's interest and talents by supporting the child's efforts in pursuing
interests; and
(C) praise. Praise
may be communicated by verbal or non-verbal expression of the child's
achievements or good qualities.
(2)
Self-control. To promote the
child's self-control, the resource parent clearly communicates expectations and
provides a structured, safe environment. The resource parent's use of planning
and preparation prevents confrontation, acting-out, and negative behaviors by:
(A) establishing expectations. The child in
out-of-home care experiences varied expectations in each placement setting.
Since each placement setting is different, the resource parent must communicate
expectations to the child through setting rules, telling the child what to
expect, and modeling. Clearly communicated expectations provide structure for
the child and a structure for building and maintaining self-control; and
(B) modifying the environment. A
structured, safe environment allows the child to succeed at identified tasks.
The resource parent structures the environment by removing negative sources of
stimulation for the child and establishing routines and consistency in the
child's day-to-day schedule.
(3)
Direct intervention. When
the child does not have sufficient self-control to ensure acceptable behavior,
the resource parent uses direct intervention and techniques, per OAC
340:75-7-38(c)(1) and (2). Techniques used are dependent upon the child's
developmental needs and anticipated outcomes. Techniques appropriate for
responding to lack of self-control include:
(A) rules. Rules are established guidelines
that:
(i) allow the child to know what can
and cannot be done;
(ii) help the
child know right from wrong;
(iii)
communicate to the child how something is done and help prevent problems; or
(iv) provide a way to respond to a
problem;
(B) time out.
Time out provides space between the child and a situation where the child
exhibits behavior that is not acceptable or where the situation is dangerous.
Recommended time out is one minute per age of the child. Time out is typically
used for the younger child;
(C)
restricting privileges. Privileges are restricted when a child is not allowed
to do something for a specified time period, such as not playing with a
particular toy, watching television, playing music or computer games, having
phone privileges, or engaging in some other pleasant activity. Talking to
parents or siblings is not included in restricting phone privileges;
(D) grounding. Grounding involves imposing
restrictions on a child's interaction and involvement with friends or
activities outside the placement setting, such as restriction to the house or
leaving the premises to attend parties, movies, or visit friends. Grounding is
typically used for the older child;
(E) logical consequences. Logical
consequences require the resource parent to impose a response to the child's
behavior consistent with and connected to the unacceptable behavior exhibited;
and
(F) natural consequences.
Natural consequences occur in response to the child's behavior. This technique
is most appropriately used with adolescents and for the child who tends to get
in power struggles. Natural consequences are never allowed when a child's
safety or well-being is in question.
(4)
Physical discipline. OKDHS
prohibits the use of any form of physical discipline for the child in OKDHS
custody in an out-of-home placement or any act or omission that would
emotionally, physically, or psychologically harm the child.
(A) The resource parent contacts the child
welfare (CW) or the resource specialist when the resource parent cannot
successfully discipline the child.
(B) OKDHS and the resource parent do not
authorize school personnel to administer corporal punishment to the child in
OKDHS custody. The resource parent does not, when requested, authorize corporal
punishment by school personnel, but refers school personnel to the CW
specialist to establish alternative discipline methods.
(C) The developmental needs of the child and
the desired outcomes define the discipline techniques used to modify the
child's behaviors. Some of the circumstances that may affect the discipline
technique used include:
(i) the behavior the
child is exhibiting;
(ii) the
resource parent's feelings about the behavior;
(iii) the purpose assigned to the behavior;
(iv) where the behavior occurs;
and
(v) who is present at the time
of the behavior.
(5)
Punishment. Unacceptable
behavior management methods and techniques promote negative behavior, are
punitive, and do not promote self-control. Unacceptable behavior management
techniques for the child include, but are not limited to:
(A) the use of the hand or any object, such
as a board, fly swatter, paddle, belt, switch, electrical cord, hair brush, or
wooden spoon, to hit, strike, swat, or physically discipline the
child;
(B) deprivation of food or
sleep;
(C) deprivation of family
visits;
(D) slapping, pinching,
shaking, biting, pushing, shoving, thumping, or rough jerking;
(E) cursing or other verbal abuse;
(F) private or public humiliation or any act
that degrades;
(G) derogatory
remarks about the child, the child's biological family, race, religion, or
cultural background;
(H) solitary
confinement in areas, such as closets, cellars, and rooms with locked doors;
(I) threatening to move the child
from the resource home;
(J) use of
any chemical agent, such as mace, sleeping pills, or alcohol;
(K) physical force or threat of physical
force;
(L) assuming and maintaining
an unnatural position that may include holding arms out-stretched from the
body, placing the nose against a wall, or forced squatting;
(M) tying with a rope, cord, or other
object;
(N) ordering, allowing, or
encouraging physical discipline or hitting by other children or anyone else in
the home;
(O) washing the mouth out
with soap, eating certain foods that may include peppers, hot sauce, or other
food stuff when intended for punishment; and
(P) forced physical exertion, such as running
laps and push-ups.
(d)
OKDHS rules. The resource
parent must abide by OKDHS rules regarding discipline of the child in OKDHS
custody even when there is a difference between OKDHS discipline rules and the
methods used to discipline the resource parent's own child.
Added at 17 Ok Reg
549, eff 12-1-99 (emergency); Added at 17 Ok Reg 1311, eff 5-11-00; Amended at
17 Ok Reg 3367, eff 9-1-00 (preemptive); Amended at 19 Ok Reg 2226, eff
6-27-02; Amended at 21 Ok Reg 2385, eff 6-25-04; Amended at 22 Ok Reg 1242, eff
5-26-05; Amended at 25 Ok Reg 1335, eff 6-1-08; Amended at 30 Ok Reg 1369, eff
7-1-13